Bringing Loved Ones Closer with Technology
As we grow older, staying in touch with family and friends becomes more important than ever. Many seniors live far away from their children, grandchildren, or close friends. Thankfully, video calling can bring everyone closer, no matter the distance. It allows you to see your loved ones, hear their voices, and feel like you’re in the same room—even if you’re miles apart.
If you’re new to video calling, don’t worry. You don’t need to be a tech expert. This blog post will walk you through everything you need to know in simple, easy-to-follow steps. We’ll explain what video calling is, how it works, and how you can use popular apps to start chatting face-to-face with the people who matter most.
What Is Video Calling and Why Is It Helpful?
Video calling means talking to someone while seeing them on your screen in real time. It’s like a phone call, but you can see each other through a camera. This can be especially comforting when you miss someone’s face or want to share special moments, like birthdays or holidays.
For seniors, video calls offer emotional support, reduce loneliness, and help maintain strong connections. Whether it’s a quick hello or a long conversation, video calling can lift your mood and make your day brighter.
What You Need to Make a Video Call
Before we get started, you’ll need a few things:
- A device with a screen and a camera (like a smartphone, tablet, or computer)
- An internet connection (Wi-Fi or mobile data)
- A video calling app (we’ll explain a few popular ones below)
Once you have these, you’re ready to start your video calling journey.
Using WhatsApp for Video Calls
WhatsApp is a free and simple app that many people already use to send messages. It also allows you to make video calls.
To make a video call using WhatsApp:
- Open the WhatsApp app on your phone or tablet.
- Tap on the name or photo of the person you want to call.
- You’ll see a small video camera icon in the top right corner. Tap it.
- The video call will start, and you’ll see the person on your screen when they answer.
- To end the call, tap the red phone button.
Make sure your camera and microphone are turned on so the other person can see and hear you. You can also switch between the front and back camera by tapping the camera icon during the call.
Using Zoom for Group Video Chats
Zoom is great if you want to talk to more than one person at the same time—perfect for family gatherings or chatting with a group of friends.
To use Zoom:
- Download the Zoom app on your device or visit the Zoom website on your computer.
- You’ll need to create a free Zoom account using your email.
- To join a video call, someone will usually send you a link.
- Click the link when it’s time for the call. Zoom will open and connect you to the meeting.
- Click “Join with Video” and “Join with Audio” so others can see and hear you.
- If you want to start your own Zoom meeting, open the app and click “New Meeting.” Then invite others by sending them the meeting link.
Zoom has a few buttons you can use during the call. You can mute yourself if there’s noise in the background, turn your camera on or off, and leave the meeting when you’re done.
Using FaceTime on Apple Devices
If you have an iPhone, iPad, or Mac, you can use FaceTime to video call others who also use Apple devices.
Here’s how:
- Open the FaceTime app on your device.
- Tap the “+” button in the top corner.
- Type in the name or phone number of the person you want to call.
- Tap the “Video” button to start a call.
- When the person answers, you’ll be able to see and hear each other.
FaceTime is easy and doesn’t require downloading any extra apps if you already have an Apple device.
Using Google Meet on Android Devices or Computers
Google Meet is another simple option, especially if you already have a Gmail account.
To make a video call using Google Meet:
- Go to meet.google.com or open the Google Meet app.
- Click “New Meeting” to start a video call.
- Share the link with the person you want to talk to.
- When they click the link, the call will begin.
- Click “Join” to start the video chat.
Google Meet works on most smartphones, tablets, and computers. It’s reliable and doesn’t require a lot of setup.
Tips for a Smooth Video Calling Experience
To have a comfortable and clear video call, follow these simple tips:
Keep your device charged or plugged in so it doesn’t shut off during the call.
Sit in a quiet, well-lit room where you can be seen and heard easily.
Look at the camera when speaking so the other person can feel connected to you.
If you have hearing trouble, consider using headphones or turning up the volume.
Practice with a friend or family member until you feel confident using the app.
Remember, there’s no need to feel embarrassed if something goes wrong. Everyone, even younger people, sometimes presses the wrong button. Just take your time, and ask for help if needed. With a little practice, it will soon feel natural.
Learning and Asking for Help
If you’re unsure about using video calling apps, ask a grandchild, neighbor, or friend to walk you through it once or twice. Many libraries, senior centers, and community programs also offer free tech support for older adults. It’s okay to learn slowly—what matters most is that you’re trying.
You can also write down the steps and keep them near your phone or computer. Having a little cheat sheet can help you remember what to do next time.
Conclusion: Staying Connected Brings Joy
Video calling is a powerful way to stay close to the people you care about. Whether you’re seeing a grandchild’s smile, chatting with an old friend, or joining a family celebration, these moments bring joy and comfort. The tools may feel new at first, but with a little patience and guidance, anyone can learn how to use them.
You don’t have to be a tech expert to connect with others. All it takes is a little curiosity and a willingness to try. Start with one call, and you’ll quickly discover how meaningful and easy it can be. Staying connected matters—and now more than ever, it’s right at your fingertips.